This isn’t love story note
This is a note about love
Talk about love. Everyone loves it. Many poems, songs, and movies take-part to describe what a love is. When you’re fall in love with somebody, you can’t sleep well, and most of your times are waste to think of someone, indeed. Suddenly you’re become man of letters. Write a lot of melancholic poems to express the feeling. Others rise from the coward man to the brave hero. No wonder, you’re got a nice smiling face. It seems this earth already all yours. Yes, you’re the man.
Now, Our conversation lead to what are you looking for someone that you love? There are four factors we’ll be talk about: handsomeness/prettiness, wealth, descent, and religiousness. Be careful, when you decide to marry someone, a lot of consideration must be made. So let me share my thought.
Naturally, everyone likes handsome/pretty person. “Hey, look at that girl, she’s so pretty!” first impression always comes to physical appearance. But try to look deeper, about his/her personality, habit, thought, way of life, like/dislike, etc. Are you wanted to be married by someone who has handsome/pretty face but also evil mind? Never!
Absolutely, you may choose the nice one. But you should know up front, this isn’t enough to build a happy family. Trust me. In a few years later, we’re getting old you know. Handsomeness/prettiness is just hold out for a moment.
A handsome husband or pretty wife with lacking of religiousness is definitely burden for you. They don’t care to keep their courtesy. As you can see, a lot of marriage crushed by affairs.
Others laid their interest at wealth. By married with a rich person, we wouldn’t worry about our needs. It’s all about money and property. Let me ask you directly: “Are you sure that you’ll be happy with this?” Life is not only appreciated by wealth. But, it’s your choice.
And once again, a rich husband or wife with lacking of religiousness is definitely burden for you. They would look down at you when you’re not rich as they are. Sometimes they humiliate your poorness. Many worst things happen.
It’s an honor if you’re married with person from a noble family. You’ll improve your generation degree. A person from a good descent usually has good respect and habit. They married with a good descent too. No wonder, a good woman will be married by a good man. It’s common in our country. The family usually has strict consideration to the person that will be married their family member.
Don’t forget, a husband or wife from a good descent with lacking of religiousness is definitely burden for you too. They would look down at you who came from ordinary family. Humiliate your family. Could you bear it?
The most important factor in your choice. We’ve already know after we face death, we’re going to heaven or hell based on our deed while we’re live. By building family based on religiousness, we make a path to heaven. We put religion as the first foundation. Why?
A religious husband or wife is definitely good for you. They care to keep their courtesy and keep their marriage far from affairs. They would NOT look down at you when you’re not rich as they are or has ordinary family degree. They DON’T humiliate your poorness and family. Because they afraid to do that, we’re afraid to our God, Allah ‘Azza Wa Jalla.
When there are problems, a family with good religion knowledge will do best to puss down their anger. Always do best to talk with kind words. Never ever let evil disturb their family with such a calumniation.
So, what are you looking for someone that you love?
A true love is only come from the source of kindness: Religion. Absolutely. Let’s try to put religiousness as our first priority and the other factors follow.
1. Use http://translate.google.com, to read on Indonesia language.
2. Let me know your thought:
Which one do you choose as your pair?
a. Handsome/pretty and good descent, but poor and lack of religion.
b. Rich and good descent, but not handsome/pretty and lack of religion.
c. Religion and rich, but not handsome/pretty and bad descent.
d. Religion and good descent, but not handsome and poor.
3. I know, if there’s possibility religion-handsome/pretty type person, but poor. You’ll choose them. So I take them out of choice.
4. If there’s a person with religion, handsome/pretty, rich, and good descent. Everyone loves it. Have you ever meet with one of them?
Originally written by Abi.